20041110

1700 hrs November 10th 2004

Just what was I thinking of,

when I wrote the previous posting,

written during lunch time?

Guess I was thinking of

my ex-wife again.

How did I lose that one.

When I looked back,

I did not talk to her

very much.

I was much happier,

doing my work

and

found the company

of a book

more interesting

than my wife.

Poor girl,

it must have been so lonely

being married to me.

Yeah, I bought her expensive gifts,

afforded her a dream beachhouse,

expensive holidays,

branded clothes and jewellery,

tried to provide her love,

and support.

But,

I never felt the need,

to listen to her,

or anybody.

I was so caught up

in my own

career success

and my cold logic

in every situation,

never felt the need

to listen.

She felt like an accessory,

in my life,

a non-entity

in my house,

a silent partner

in my marriage.

Guess I can only blame myself,

for being so cocksure

of myself,

that I invalidated

her entire being.

With a gapping emotional void,

it is only natural,

that she ended up

in the arms

of another man.

Maybe its too late,

to say I'm sorry.

But I do wished,

she helped me change,

for the better.