Oh, if I made add
on my favoured
warm and fuzzy relationship,
of low passion, high intimacy
and strong commitments.
Prophet Mohammad once wrote
in the Koran,
"A couple in a marriage,
is like the two main pillars
of the great temple.
They are slightly apart
but holding the great roof
of the temple
together"
That is so profoundly beautiful.
Because when two pillars
are too far apart,
the roof will collapse.
Conversely,
when two pillars
are too close together
the roof will collapse too.
Thus, I see a healthy marriage
as one where
two people actually develop
their individuality
and personalities
slightly apart
but working together
to hold the great roof
of their marriage,
but always
slightly apart.
I don't want a woman
to cling to everything
I say or do.
I like a woman
who motivates me
to be a better man
develops my mind
and my soul
without being
overbearing.
And likewise,
I'd give her all the moral support
I can give
to make her
a more complete woman,
I want to extract
the best from her,
so she live to her
maximum potential
and be complete.
