Why have I failed
in my numberous relationships
with women?
Its the balance of power
that I failed to
understand.
People possess power
over others,
when they either
have the resources
that others want,
or they possess the means
to have the resources
that others want.
I have never witnessed
a purely egalitarian
power sharing
type of relationship
between a man
and a woman.
It is always
a personal exploitation
of resources
and wants.
A husband who cares less
always have the power
to exploit
the wife who cares more.
A wife who have less interest
always have the power
to exploit the husband
who have more interest.
People's needs and wants
are many.
Be it social,
be it economic,
be it emotional,
be it sexual.
And in this day and age,
where alternatives
are plentiful
and divorces easy
to obtain,
there is really no difference,
between leaving the spouse
for a 3rd party,
or leaving the spouse
with the INTENTION
of finding a 3rd party,
the power of obtaining
alternatives.
Some women
like to dominate,
some get bored
dominating
and want to be
dominated.
It does not change the fact
that the balance of power,
was not addressed.
The power
to commit,
or to withhold
a commitment.
Like everything else
in this capitalist world,
its all about
the power of demand
and supply
