1305 HRS APRIL 29TH 2007

I have difficulties

understanding women

or people in general.

I have alot more respect

for animals

than people.

Women in marriages

or relationships,

have a tendency

to outgrow their men

over the years.

It reaches a stage

when they think

deep down,

but will never admit

that they're too good

for their men.

They go around complaining

about their men

to others,

making themselves

seem like such

sad and pathetic

victims

of their monstrous men.

But I have never really met

a real monster in my life.

Neither have I really met

a real angel in my life

for that matter.

Everybody is about

the same,

take away some strengths

and some weaknessess.

So women leave their partners

for two reasons,

(1) they have a better alternative

(2) they have the INTENTION

to find a better alternative.

Both of which I find

equally wrong.

Some actually bullshit themselves

that they're more comfortable

being by themselves,

that they do not need

a man in their lives.

But yet when someone new

walks into their lives,

they get all excited,

hence they fall under

the intention category.

I do not believe,

that there exists

a perfect couple

made in Heaven.

If a woman wants

a better alternative,

no matter how

happy the marriage may be,

I bet you every single cent

I ever owned,

a better alternative

WILL appear

in their lives.

It is not IF

but only WHEN.

The ultimate sin

in any marriage or relationship,

is COMPARISON.

When you do not stop comparing,

someone will walk in,

and make your partner

look like some sad citizen

from Republic of Losers.

We think we're smart

and modern.

But our forefathers,

had all the answers.

The reality is

when you made a commitment

you stick by it,

for better or worse.

You stopped loving your partner,

you hang in there,

because love is such that

at some point,

you will find reasons

to fall in love

with your partner again.

We fail to realise

that love is

very cyclical in nature.

If we hang around

during the downs,

it will go up again,

at some point,

if two people

make a conscious effort

to think about

what got them together

in the first place,

what kept them together

in the second place,

and decide that

they owe it to themselves

to find a reason

to love again.